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Today is a tough day to be a New York Jets fan, and it isn't just because our team wasn't playing. It also isn't just that the two teams that Jets fans least wanted to see in the big game made it, or how they made it despite the fact that their opponents mostly outplayed them. It isn't just the knowledge that now, one of two groups of loudmouthed fans will get to spend the next year rubbing it in. It's having to choose. You can either pass on the game entirely and disappoint the people who would enjoy watching it with you, or you can choose whichever team you view as the lesser evil. There are no happy options here, but that still doesn't mean you shouldn't try to find reasons to be happy.

Come Super Bowl Sunday, I will be watching the big game in a house on Long Island, and I will be completely surrounded by Giants fans. My friend invited me over to his family's Super Bowl party before we knew who it would be, and I said yes. At some point a few of the people there will make Jets jokes. I will grin and bear it, because that is all we can do. The truth is though, I will be ecstatic to be there watching it with them, because as fun (or heart wrenching) as football can be, there are always more important things. In this case, the important thing is my friend. Back in September he had a sizable tumor removed from his lung, and he has been fighting through infections and the effects of chemotherapy ever since. I will be overjoyed to be sitting with him, watching a game we both love very much, even if I can't stand the teams involved in it.

Pain is part of the human experience, and it is important to remember that the pain you feel over this is pretty tame compared to the pains one could be feeling. I never understand how people can wish harm on others just because they support a different team. Every team has a fanbase, and every fanbase feels pain at some point. This year we felt the pain a little sooner than the last two years. And there's no doubt that being that close is a more intense sort of pain than being a fan of , say, the Bucs or the Bills. But it's still worth remembering that tides turn in the NFL, and that we are not that far away from being the ones who get to spend an entire offseason bragging. Some day it will be us.

Today is a prime example of how close any team is, in any given year, to signing (Wes Welker, Victor Cruz) or drafting (Rob Gronkowski, Jason Pierre Paul) the right player who will put them over the top and take them from contender to champion. If you have a good coach and a front office that tries, you should always have hope. Our Jets have a couple of key spots to fill, but it is still just a couple of spots. We could be one good or lucky draft pick and one or two solid FA signings away from going from a feisty contender to a legit dynasty. That's how football works. So there really is no reason to feel despair. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. And even if you really can't stomach watching the two teams that you least wanted to be in the Super Bowl fight it out for a title, just take heart in the fact that the draft is only a few months away, and training camp is soon thereafter. Nightmares end. Life goes on. We'll all be just fine.

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Sad to hear about your friend, Best wishes.

I agree with you 100 percent. Football, while a big part of my life is not the end of it. I love it every fall and winter and wish the best, but there are more important things. Your friend being one of them.
Your right too, we’ll be fine.

by sp0rtsfan86 on Jan 23, 2012 1:09 AM EST reply actions  

rec'd

Great post and perspective. Your priorities are in order. I hope your friend makes a full and complete recovery. He’s blessed to have a great friend like you!

A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government. It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that a democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy followed by a dictatorship. The average age of the world’s greatest civilizations has been 200 years." Alexander Tyler

by joeklecko on Jan 23, 2012 1:39 AM EST reply actions  

First and foremost great to hear your friend is doing well

I’ll begin with saying that my farther is a Giants fan, and somehow I became a Jets fan. I’m 46 years old, and have been a Jets fan since I was…lets just say along time. I can also say that sure I’d love to see the Jets win a SB sometime in my lifetime, it would be awesome! I can also say that I’ve grown out of that BS, you talk of. I’m a New Yorker! and the Giants are a New York team, and I’ll be rooting for the Giants in the SB, cause I really can’t stand Belichek, and how he did us. IMO it was unprofessional and not cool at all. Football Is the only team sport I really care about, Baseball is for old men in rocking chairs, Basketball is okay and Hockey is just plain bad. I"m so happy that Football has become a pretty much year round sport. Go New York another title for the Big Apple!

by JETSFAN IN SC on Jan 23, 2012 1:59 AM EST reply actions  

I'm with you on this

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by Bro Namath on Jan 23, 2012 2:35 AM EST up reply actions  

Thanks

I’ts’ like lets grow up with the hate for the Giants. If their fans what to lower themselves to the maturity of a child let them. In the end were all New Yorkers. IMO me as a Jets fan will take the high road, as well as realize that the Giants have been a Football team twice as long as the Jets. The Jets are getting better every year and I now wear my Jets gear proudly even this year

by JETSFAN IN SC on Jan 23, 2012 8:39 AM EST up reply actions  

As a Giant fan I agree with what you say

I’d root for the Jets in a SB easily over the Eagles or Cowboys but the whole immaturity thing that you speak of from the Giant fan rubbing it in does not come from wanting to making fun of the Jet fan its more of a reaction to the immaturity of the Jets Ownership, front office, and head coach in regards to the Giants over the years specificallly the past few when the Jets have done well. I mean I know you probabbly won’t agree but if you take a look at the crap the Jets ownership has said and done over the past 3 or 4 years you have to understand how it would bug a GIants fan, even one that has no natural annimosity towards the Jets.

1. Lets start with the Rex. First he’s Buddy Ryan’s son, if Bellichecks son coaches the Giants in 25 years would you like him even before he opens his mouth?. I mean he’s constatnly calling the Giants the little brother and he’s quoted in his book as saying that the Jets will be better the the Giants for the next 10 years and thats a fact. He refers to MetLife stadium as his teams stadium when its really nobodys stadium its just a Giant canned hammed in the middle of the meadowlands. He’s been in NY for 3 years and says the Giants have to share the city with him, I mean come on so 85 years of history are wiped away because Rex Ryan says so? Have you ever heard Tom Coughlin or any other NFL coach for that matter making comments like that about a team that they play once every four years let alone a division rival?

2. Woody Johnson’s unhealthy obsession with the Giants. Signing Favre was done for one reason and one reason only, to overshadow the NY Giants who were defending SB champs that offseason. Thats it, it had nothing to do with football. Once the NYC stadium deal feel through he chose to partner with the Giants, who were building a new stadium in the meadowlands regardless of what the Jets were doing. After the NYC deal feel through Woody could of build a stadium in Queens or LI which is closer to the heart of the Jet fan base and would give them more of an identity. Instead he partners up with the Giants and procceds to complain about who has what locker room, where the teams practice facilities are located, who won the coin flip for the first game (which was idiotic cosidering both teams played home the opening weekend in 2010). I mean Woody what the hell did you expect when you decided to share a stadium with another NFL team? That they would never play there or be around it?

3. Don’t know if this is Woody or the Jets PR people but during this entire playoff run by the Giants the Jets have chosen key moments to draw media attention from the Giants. After the last week of the regular season when the Jets lost and the Giants won a huge game to win the division and make the playoffs the Jets choose to hold a press conference about how great of an OC Brian Schotenhimer is but that he’ll probabbly get a HC job. So instead of talking about the upcoming Giants playoff game vs ATL we kept getting all of these reports about Brian Schotenhiemer. Last week, Rex goes on with Francesa. All year this guy and a lot of the Jets avoid Francesa but the Friday before the Giants play in a conference championship game Francesa is able to get Rex and again draw attention away from the Giants becasue we all know how hard Francesa is on the Jets and Rex so it would make for good radio and get people talking about the Jets even though at this point there is nothing substational to talk about (as compared to a conference title game). And if you don’t think this stuff from a PR/media standpoint is done intentionally then you are being naive becasue in 2009 when the shoe was literally on the other foot, Jets have nice late season run, Giants collapse and fire/hire a coordinator after John Mara goes nuts, the Giants organization did none of this stuff. There were no press conferences about Bill SHeridian or TC going on ESPN 1050 or FAN for that matter before the Jets played in conference title games. None of it.

I guess my point is most of the obnoxiousness you hate about the Giants come from thier fans who yea sure some can be arrogant and annoying but they’re fans I mean it is what it is and we’re not nearly as obnoxious as Philadelphia fans but none of it (very Little I should say) comes from the Giants organization, ie Owner, GM, HC, and general PR/Media people while the Jets brass/FO have written the book on obnoxious immarture beahvior over the past 3 years so a fan like myself who would like to root for the Jets finds it extremely difficult too for the reasons I mentioned above. So while I don’t like the Tweet from the Giants about winning conference championsihp games compared to the Jets nor do I like anything about Pat Hanlon’s attitude towards the Jets (Giants PR guy), none of this stuff would happen if the Jets organization would just focus on football 100% of the time instead of “owning NYC”.

by Landeta on Jan 25, 2012 10:26 AM EST up reply actions  

maybe rex drawing attention away from your team helped them a little

ie taking the pressure off , keeping your team under the radar

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by tinley24 on Jan 25, 2012 12:15 PM EST up reply actions  

I guess to some point I agree but as a fan it gets so annoying

I mean the Friday before a conference title game when the Giants are playing in it do I have to hear a Rex Ryan interview when his teams season has been over for 3 weeks? Outside of die-hard Jets fans who the hell cares what he has to say at this point its all nonsense.

by Landeta on Jan 25, 2012 10:49 PM EST up reply actions  

i agree , but its not all his fault

the blame is with the reporters or TV guys who ask him and then lets everyone else know

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i want jeffery in green at pick 16

Notre Dame vs. Navy: The Emerald Isle Classic
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Location:Dublin, Ireland

by tinley24 on Jan 26, 2012 3:04 PM EST up reply actions  

Best wishes for the continued recovery of your buddy!

Seeing that play in which Green-Ellis lost his helmet and seemed to lower his head into a sea of helmeted tacklers made me sick today, and reminded me of how life can change in an instant. We’re certainly lucky to have such a great game to follow, and such an awesome community to share it with. Godspeed to your friend! And at least this isn’t the Yankees-Phillies World Series. Thank god for small favors.

by klamson on Jan 23, 2012 3:24 AM EST reply actions  

great to hear your story about your buddy .

i know how you feel , my mom is dying of lung cancer at the moment and i find that football is the place i go to escape my real life problems if only for a few hours . GGN and the big football family here help me take my mind off the things i know are ahead .
hope your buddy make a full recovery and that one day you can get your own back by hosting a SB party full of jet fans when we get there .
i can tell this is going to be a special SB for you no matter who wins , but that just shows the power of the sport we all love .
my prayers are with you both

follow me on TWITTER @tinley24
i want jeffery in green at pick 16

Notre Dame vs. Navy: The Emerald Isle Classic
Date:Sept. 1, 2012
Location:Dublin, Ireland

by tinley24 on Jan 23, 2012 6:39 AM EST reply actions  

wow I'm really sorry to hear about your mom T

I truly can’t say that I know how you feel since both of my parents are still pretty healthy thank God. I’ll put you and your mother on my personal as well as my church pray list. I’ll just say one thing and It’s that when she gos she’ll be in a better place than all of us. I’ll just say I hope your mom doesn’t suffer much and gos peacefully.

by JETSFAN IN SC on Jan 23, 2012 8:30 AM EST up reply actions  

wow

sorry to hear about your mom tinley. damn it, i know my sorry doesn’t help, but is there still a chance? 6 years ago, my cousin got cancer. at times it looked like he wouldn’t make it, but he did. the doctor said he would never walk, he said it would be impossible. it’s 6 years latwr, and he just celebrated his 13th birthday. he fucking runs better then me.

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by rexthejet on Jan 23, 2012 9:47 AM EST up reply actions  

I Am So Sorry

to hear about your Mom, Tinley24. Having just lost my mom this past August 1, I know what you’re going through and how hard it is. Fortunately, while my mother’s health declined over a period of years, it wasn’t from anything as serious and painful as lung cancer. I pray that your Mom won’t suffer a long time.

Hang in there, my friend. If there’s anything I can do, or if you just need to talk with someone who’s been there, please feel free to contact me anytime at ccoll67202@aol.com

A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government. It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that a democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy followed by a dictatorship. The average age of the world’s greatest civilizations has been 200 years." Alexander Tyler

by joeklecko on Jan 23, 2012 10:20 AM EST up reply actions  

cheers guys for those kind words

these replies just prove how good the people on GGN really are . its one of the main reasons i love this site so much , we are all crazy about the jets but we are also human and its great how people we have never met face to face build up a friendship / respect for each other .
its great to be able to come on this wonderful blog and talk football with everyone on here as part of a massive Jets family , it helps keeping me from being down in the dumps 24/7 .
all you guys do more than you will never know .

follow me on TWITTER @tinley24
i want jeffery in green at pick 16

Notre Dame vs. Navy: The Emerald Isle Classic
Date:Sept. 1, 2012
Location:Dublin, Ireland

by tinley24 on Jan 23, 2012 12:43 PM EST up reply actions  

Sorry to hear about that

I lost both of my parents to cancer. All I can say is hang in there.

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Gary Cohen: What's wrong with the script?
Ralph Kiner: Well the script should be the Mets win every day.

by StorkFan on Jan 23, 2012 9:20 PM EST up reply actions  

Sending prayers and good thoughts to your mom and SioneBAOOOHA's friend.

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by 808BostonSportsFan on Jan 26, 2012 10:46 PM EST up reply actions  

Tinley, I'm so sorry about your mom

I don’t know you personally but I know how you feel. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family. I know it’s hard but stay positive and be grateful for the time you have with your mom and don’t forget to take in every moment you have left.

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by MDGeekyGrl on Jan 28, 2012 8:34 AM EST up reply actions  

wow

hope your friend will make it out ok. rec’d for how right you are. it realy is just a game. we have to remind ourselves that sometimes

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"we the mets are an improved ball club, now we lose in extra innings"-casy stengel
i cant spell a nosebleed
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i'm a moderator for GGN. I will accept tribute.

by rexthejet on Jan 23, 2012 9:50 AM EST reply actions  

Nice post

It’s only the end of a season for us and perspective certainly helps.

"I just build our guys up. If it's trash talking that I believe in our football team, then, yes, I agree with that statement. I'm the biggest trash talker there is." Rex Ryan

by OldJetsFanatic on Jan 23, 2012 11:19 AM EST reply actions  

Glad your friend is alright

I’m more mad about how these two teams got in, then that they got in. I just wish the jets get at least one break like the breaks those two teams got yesterday.

by BIG OH!!!!! on Jan 23, 2012 6:13 PM EST reply actions  

Long Island?

Nice. Me too.

The Jets will win the Super Bowl one day and that will be the day i laugh in your face if your not a Jets fan.

by sanchise6 on Jan 23, 2012 9:05 PM EST reply actions  

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