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The NFL Season Has Peaks and Valleys: How to Cope

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Today a friend who is a Jets fan asked me whether I am worried about the team. I answered that of course I am worried. I am not sure how somebody could have watched the last two games and not be worried. He said that he agrees and knows the team is done. That seemed ridiculous to me.

It is logical to assume that the Jets got their brains beaten in last Monday in the biggest game of the year against the Patriots, lost all of their confidence, and will fall apart. That might happen. There is a problem with that kind of reasoning, though. It assumes logic in a place where logic does not always apply, the National Football League. This is the league where Cleveland can beat New England and lose to Buffalo. It is a league where the 2001 Jets could lose at home to 3-13 Buffalo in Week 15, be left for dead, and win on the road the next week against a Raiders team fighting for a bye to clinch a Playoff spot. Weird things happen all the time to change a team's fortune. Sometimes a devastating loss destroys a season. Sometimes a team recovers out of the blue.

Maybe some tipped ball will bounce into Braylon Edwards' hands on Sunday that he will take to the house for an early lead. Maybe this will restore Mark Sanchez's confidence, and the team will never look back. Who could have ever seen the effort a struggling Giants team put forward against the undefeated Patriots on the last game of the 2007 season giving them the confidence to win it all?

It seems like the people who are giving up have just become miserable following the team. I'll give you one extreme case in the past few days where somebody on GGN left a comment, "I can't think about it too long otherwise I'll want to drive my car right through their practice facility." If you ever get to a point where you have that much misery, you should probably find some other way to occupy your time. I know this probably sounds silly from a grown man with a real job who wastes so many hours maintaining a website about a professional football team, but this is supposed to be fun. Sure, there are disappointing moments. I'm not saying these last two weeks have been enjoyable for me. It's only football, though. It's supposed to be a diversion. It's not the end of the world.

People who get frustrated like this are the ones booing at the first sign of trouble at the stadium. They're the ones who left early during the Houston game. Their anger cost themselves a chance to witness the kind of moment we all hope to see as fans.

Some of the best moments of my childhood came spending time with my dad watching the Jets. Those teams were horrible. Bruce Coslet, Pete Carroll, and Rich Kotite coached them. Looking back, we still laugh at how bad those teams are. A very good friend of mine from high school is a season ticket holder. We have laughs over the bad Draft picks and bitter losses of the past. We're part of a unique club, albeit one that seems like a voyage of the damned at times.

I'd love for nothing more than to be sitting in Jerry World the first Sunday in February celebrating a long awaited championship. Only one team's fans get to do that each year. There's a good chance it won't be the Jets. If it doesn't happen, we'll all come to GGN among our friends and plot together how the team will make it happen next year, and with the young foundation on the roster, the Jets will be in a better spot than most.

For now, there are at least three weeks left before that long offseason. I will not promise you that this team will turn it around. Honestly, they may not. All I can tell you is to enjoy the ride. This game is supposed to be fun, and you never know what will happen. Even if we make assertive statements, all we are really doing is guessing. If the way things appeared according to conventional wisdom always decided things, the Baltimore Colts were Super Bowl III Champions.

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Not holding my breath about any postseason talk. Certainly not about the game in JerryWorld.

Good post, though. I think Lions and Jets fans certainly have thick skin to deal with this sh*t year in, year out.. It’s tough. Unfortunately, at some point, the joke isn’t funny anymore.

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by Matt Birch on Dec 14, 2010 10:01 PM EST reply actions  

Lions fans have had it worse

At least we have had some hope over the past 10 years with some playoff teams and decent QBs. The Lions are going to be a contender next year though….if Stafford can stay on the field.

Should you choose to test my resolve in this matter, you will be facing a finality beyond your comprehension, and you will not be counting days, or months, or years, but milleniums in a place with no doors.

by YankeesJets on Dec 14, 2010 10:04 PM EST up reply actions  

I think this was a great post

Made me think back and laugh at the bad old days. I still love the Jets draft picks video on Youtube. Anytime things look bad, go back and watch it, you will realize there is no way these guys are the same old Jets.

Should you choose to test my resolve in this matter, you will be facing a finality beyond your comprehension, and you will not be counting days, or months, or years, but milleniums in a place with no doors.

by YankeesJets on Dec 14, 2010 10:03 PM EST reply actions  

A…MEN. Inspired.

http://www.jetskvetch.com
Come join me as I fanatically follow the goys in green!

by Max VV on Dec 14, 2010 10:18 PM EST reply actions  

I agree.

I care a lot about this team, but I can’t let it affect me to the point of the person in your example. I think my greatest disappointment is getting so excited all week to see them on Sunday/Monday just to see what we’ve seen the last two weeks.

Darrelle Revis once won a game of Connect Four in three moves.

by bm01bath on Dec 14, 2010 10:46 PM EST reply actions  

its funny how people forget how good thi team is/can be.

Yes we’re in a 2-game slump, but we’re one win from a 10 win season with 3 games to play. I don’t care how we get in as long as we’re in. We enough talent to beat anybody. And how well u look in the reg season doesn’t win playoff games. If we get hot we’re gonna put it on who ever we play.

by Crackback on Dec 14, 2010 11:03 PM EST via mobile reply actions  

How were the Giants “struggling” when they beat the Patriots ? They were in the Super Bowl !!!!!!!!! Are you an idiot ? or just stupid ??

by jim_ on Dec 15, 2010 12:55 AM EST reply actions  

Think he meant how they lost to them in the last game of the regular season but were able to build on it

Should you choose to test my resolve in this matter, you will be facing a finality beyond your comprehension, and you will not be counting days, or months, or years, but milleniums in a place with no doors.

by YankeesJets on Dec 15, 2010 1:16 AM EST up reply actions  

How come you don’t read the posts well and then decide to jump to conclusions and act rude? Are you an idiot? Or just stupid??

by revis_island on Dec 15, 2010 2:15 AM EST up reply actions  

+1

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by Matt Birch on Dec 15, 2010 2:30 AM EST up reply actions  

There’s no reason he can’t be both. Ha!

by cult hero on Dec 15, 2010 4:16 AM EST up reply actions  

Grow up. If you want to call out idiots, call in to Mike Francesa's show tomorrow. John is good people.

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by Matt Birch on Dec 15, 2010 2:30 AM EST up reply actions  

Look I feel the Jets could beat the Steelers

The problem is this offense has been stagnant for about ten straight weeks. There been some moments, but no consistency. They haven’t score a first quarter touchdown since the first Miami game. That is a very long time.The good thing is the Jets score a touchdown they win. Being that they have no touchdown in any of their losses, they score one they win. I’m really getting tired of these ugly games. The Giants played an ugly game and won by 18. The sad thing is Brodney Pool had a monster game last week and because of this anemic offense, no one is talking about it. I bring this up because I was one of the first ones who wanted him out of here.

Um Jim, before you give a writer a choice between being an idiot or stupid, please read the article. Then when you finish, please read it again. You see, your post is disrespectful. And to make matters worse, your commented on something that is not in the article. I could show you a block quote; but do me a favor, PLEASE READ THE ARTICLE.

by BIG OH!!!!! on Dec 15, 2010 2:12 AM EST reply actions  

No offense to the other writers, but John, you’re my favorite. I love your outlook on things because they always seem to be similar to mine, and it’s refreshing to read articles from realistic and rational people such as yourself.

by revis_island on Dec 15, 2010 2:16 AM EST reply actions  

: (

J/K

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by Matt Birch on Dec 15, 2010 2:27 AM EST up reply actions  

Haha sorry man. Sometimes I just feel like I’m reading my thoughts when I read his posts ;)

For what it’s worth, I really do like all the writers. But everyone has a favorite.

by revis_island on Dec 15, 2010 3:14 AM EST up reply actions  

Matt, you're my favorite...

…but this was one heck of a post. Could not have written it better myself.

by GreekPete on Dec 15, 2010 6:25 AM EST up reply actions  

John B

I’m 21 years old. I’ve been following the jets religiously for about ten years. I don’t think there is anyone’s opinion i respect more than your’s. Honestly, at the beginning of this season, when all this superbowl hipe came out, I did believe that this was the best team the jets have put on the field (ever), but I still feel like sanchez is still at a really early point in his career, and the jets are just expecting him to be great right away, which is unrealistic. If they could turn things around, and get the trophy this year, that would be amazing, but I don’t want to get my hopes up just yet. Any given sunday though…

by sbIII champs on Dec 15, 2010 2:32 AM EST reply actions  

Way to swagger jack me ;)

by revis_island on Dec 15, 2010 2:47 PM EST up reply actions  

The Steelers aren't invincible

Great post.

We could win this game. The defense looked good during the Dolphins game. You just can’t give anyone field position like that and expect them not to score.

Sanchez is a second year QB. He’s looked good, he’s looked bad. On Sunday, he got sacked six effing times. Anyone would have been skittish on a day like that. He’s going to be a good for the team, long term. He can take a hit or four in a row, he studies his ass off, and he has some natural talent. Those are three things that really matter.

by Matt in Queens on Dec 15, 2010 2:43 AM EST reply actions  

They aren't.

Our friends the Patriots proved that and so did the Dolphins (who got robbed) and the Bills. If we win this one, I think things will turn around in a hurry. If it’s close, that might be enough even if we lose.

A blowout, however… and I think that’s gonna be it for the season. If our defense shows up again, we’re safe from the blowout. Now, I wonder if our offense will make it to the party.

by cult hero on Dec 15, 2010 4:15 AM EST up reply actions  

Sometimes you gotta puke!

I read many reasonable thoughts above—but everyone’s emotional balance is different. Some people just have to do everything heart and soul. Others are stoic and level-headed. To commit any amount of time to anything takes a tremendous effort. From a lifetime of devotion and heartache, this year has had its added twists of the knife because of all the childish BS. We all bought into the hype. The talent is obviously there! But I can’t remember any team ever predicting it would win the Super Bowl—especially in the preseason! We’ve all waited a long time for that title and experienced a roller coaster of emotions. Right now, it looks like the coaching is too inexperienced and Rex’s ludicrous boasts have set him up to lose all credibility with fans, media, and the team. I like Rex. Most of us do. But his predictions were high school BS—and we all bought into it out of desperation. So if we fail, then I will have a catharsis—may I say PUKE. We were all like fools that a beautiful woman tempted only to leave us stood up—for a box of Twinkies! Gratefully, we still have three games—and each one is winnable. Pitt has a great D—but the team is much like Miami—and those are the teams we can beat (if we don’t beat ourselves). Go Jets!

by Timxing on Dec 15, 2010 3:49 AM EST reply actions  

It is only a game

Earlier this season I posted a poll that asked would you rather see a well played, tight game in which your team loses or a blowout sloppy game which your team wins. At that time I was of the opinion that I would rather see the tight game. Well I guess the Jets decided to teach me a lesson. So boys, I have now learned my lesson, it is time to have a sloppy blowout which the Jets win. I will now take a sloppy win any time. Go Jets. J-E-T-S- Jets, Jets, Jets

by viguy007 on Dec 15, 2010 8:31 AM EST reply actions  

If I can take the mets 2007-2010 in stride, I can handle just about anything sports-related

2 game losing steak. Whatever. Wake me up when the equivalent of Mike Jacobs, Gary Matthews Jr, luis castillo and Jeff Francoeur are all in the line-up at the same time, whatever that would be.

Everything changes with a win this weekend. The Jets are still a probable playoff team without a win this weekend. Is that so bad?

by HotChipWillBreakYourLegs on Dec 15, 2010 9:23 AM EST reply actions  

Got a shot

Uplifting read John. I agree that it’s nice to take a step back from the edge and put the Jets, sports and life into perspective but it was hard not to get caught up in all of the hype. We went to training camp in Cortland and saw first hand how explosive the offense look with the addition of LT and Holmes. Santonio in particular looked all-world and was the best Jet on the field. When you looked at the O on paper and the work Sanchez put in including the Jets West camp with the recievers, it all had the promise of a dominant season. The Jets brain trust jettisoned, couldn’t resist, the players deemed expendable and stocked the defense with a “better” secondary and elevated the pass rush with Taylor. Then the hype was on in full bloom.
But right out of the gate the offense struggled in preseason and other than the Buffalo game has never looked effiecient nevermind dominant. Wins are wins but the nine wins to date seem to be a confluence of good breaks and timing more than solid football. As it’s been well documented this team has not played good ball on all sides of the ball except for the Bills game. With three left and all winnable its time to get it going. I agree that Sanchez is young and has been hot and cold this season but a trip back to the playoffs will definitely help build on the future. Anything can happen in the playoffs and the ball isn’t round so lets get in and enjoy the ride.

by gusdad on Dec 15, 2010 10:14 AM EST reply actions  

Coslet and Carroll and Rich, Oh my....

A little wizard of oz thing there. But having followed the Titans/Jets since the early 60’s, while there have been a few disappointments, I’m enjoying this season immensely. Thanks, John, for drudging up the muck of seasons past, it makes this season a little easier to enjoy.

And to timxing and any others, if you don’t like Rex for some of his coaching decisions, that’s your prerogative. But when Rex makes statements that shoot for the moon, that’s part of his persona and until a couple weeks ago he was backing it up. If the season ends abruptly, the off-season decisions he makes will determine what type of coach he is. And I think we all know some decisions will need to be made (Schotty?Cavanaugh?).

So hang in there, and let’s see where the season takes us. I still remember the 1-15 season when we had bags over our heads that said J-E-T-S (just end the season). Now that was a season to puke for. And I’m not sure, but that might’ve been a Kotite season.

by oldskooljet on Dec 15, 2010 11:45 AM EST reply actions  

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